Heather Dobrott / Soapboxmom on CW33

Heather Dobrott / Soapboxmom on CW33.


Children Raped and Garland Soccer Makes Empty Promises

For its part, the Garland Soccer Association said it plans to do everything it can to reassure parents that their children are safe with those who serve for the not-for-profit organization.

“We’re going to get to the bottom of it and we’re going to do what it takes to make sure it doesn’t happen again,” Kimberly Verity, vice president of the Garland Soccer Association, told WFAA. “We want to do everything we can to protect our children. That’s what we take pride in.”


“I was shocked. We were all shocked and saddened that it’s happened,” said Kimberly Verity.
“We deal with many children and parents. We’ve never had anything like this before. It’s heartbreak,” said Don Starkey.
Both sit on the board of the Garland Soccer Association. Verity is the Vice President of the association. Starkey is the Facility Director.
Verity said the Garland Soccer Association started paying an organization to conduct an extra background check on their coaches two years ago even though their parent organization, the North Texas Soccer Association, has always and still conducts background checks.
“I know we do that every year on every single coach,” Verity said.
When told Mondragon-Guzman turned out to be in the country illegally, she said, “That’s what I’ve heard. That’s what I’ve heard.”
They don’t know how Bernardo Mondragon-guzman slipped through.
“We’re going to do everything we can to protect our children. And if we need to change things, we’ll do, we’ll change things,” Verity said.


Though I made motions, and documented more action that should be taken in my board reports Garland Soccer did nothing.  David Arciniega refused to form the child safety committee I recommended as a degreed educator and shot down any attempt to make the changes necessary to keep our kids safe.  Garland Soccer did absolutely nothing in response to our kids being raped.  GSA lied to all the parents and left our kids in grave danger.



Tip Sheet: What Parents Need To Know When Selecting A Program For Their Child

Choosing a school or program is one of the most complicated and emotional decisions you have to make as a parent. The specific activities, the schedule, the costs, how it matches your child’s needs and interest– all these things play a part in your decision. Whether or not the school has a child sexual abuse prevention policy needs to be a consideration.
9 Questions to ask of your child’s existing or prospective school and the answers you should expect to hear.

1. What is the organization’s policy on child sexual abuse prevention?
To be sure your child is safe, make sure any program you are considering has a more comprehensive approach to preventing sexual and other forms of child abuse. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention has defined six key components of a comprehensive approach to keeping kids safe. These include:

  • Screening and selecting employees and volunteers
  • Guidelines on interactions between individuals (none exist in Garland Soccer)
  • Monitoring behavior (The Garland Soccer board shot that down as certain members said they didn’t care to do it. Garland refuses to monitor coaches and keep kids safe.)
  • Ensuring safe physical environments
  • Responding to inappropriate behavior, breaches in policy, and allegations and suspicions of child sexual abuse (Garland Soccer bragged to the media that it would do and change and then did nothing. These incidents are swept under the rug and forgotten.)
  • Training about child sexual abuse (I moved for coaches and parents to be educated and suggested materials from the Positive Coaching Alliance and was shot down. Garland Soccer refused to take any reasonable action to protect our kids.)

2. How does the program screen staff?
The organization or program should be knowledgeable about who sexually abuses children and what puts children at risk to be abused. Ask how they screen employees and volunteers and be wary if they rely solely on criminal background checks. They should use written applications and personal interviews to learn about what previous experience someone has working with youth and to identify any potential warning signs. For example, some people who sexually abuse children spend all of their time with children or youth and do not have any relationships (friendships, significant partners, co-workers) with adults. (Nothing but background checks are done even though I pointed out numerous times that 95% of sex offenders pass background checks.)

3. Are criminal background checks enough?
No. Criminal background checks can give a false sense of security. Because the vast majority of child sexual abuse goes unreported, the vast majority of people who have sexually abused children will pass a criminal background check. Too often, organizations serving kids rely solely on background checks to determine whether a person is safe to work with children. This is a very low bar. People who have sexually abused children will pass a criminal background check unless the abuse has been reported, prosecuted as a sexual crime, and the person has been found guilty.

4. Do they check references?

5. What is their policy or code of conduct about interactions between employees/ volunteers and youth?
Organizations should have a policy regarding staff and youth interactions. Does the code include examples of positive interactions or is it so focused on what not to do that your child could miss out on appropriate, encouraging interaction? Are you comfortable with how they define appropriate and inappropriate interactions? (None exist and David Arciniega refused to allow me to have a committee to craft such policies and make recommendations to improve child safety.)

6. How do they monitor interactions between adults and children?
All the policies in the world won’t do any good unless they are observing interactions and taking action as needed. Organizations who take seriously the safety of children understand the importance of both observation and taking action. What procedures does the organization have for monitoring interactions? What is the procedure for bringing up concerns about interactions between adults or older youth and children? Who is designated to handle these concerns? (Garland Soccer’s board shot down my request to implement such monitoring and requirement to have the practice schedules and locations for all teams.)

7. Have they considered safety in the physical environment?
Safety in the physical layout can be too often overlooked. Are all areas of the space visible to others or could someone bring a child into a corner or closet without being seen by others? Do doors have windows or are they kept open so anyone walking by can see how staff are interacting with children? When you visit the space, think about how easy or difficult it will be for staff to monitor interactions. Would it be easy for someone from outside the program to gain access? Can anyone walk in or do you need to sign in?

8. How do they handle situations like inappropriate behavior or allegations of sexual abuse?
You want to be certain that they have policies and procedures in place to deal with not only evidence of sexual abuse but breaches in policies and concerning behaviors. Some situations require an internal response while others should be handled by authorities. Organizations with policies in place are better equipped to handle concerns than those who have not. (Swept under the rug and forgotten.)

9. What training staff and volunteers receive about preventing child sexual abuse?
Training is another way that organizations send a message to staff and volunteers that they are serious about keeping children safe from abuse. Training should include information on how to identify signs of abuse and when it is appropriate to make a referral. They should also know what the procedures are for making a referral and the designated staff person to handle these referrals. Training should be ongoing and refresher courses available.
It is important that even temporary staff and volunteers are made aware of the school’s child protection policy and mechanism for reporting any concerns and allegations. Some organizations even provide training to parents and other caregivers because they know the importance of knowledgeable adults in keeping children safe. (Garland Soccer’s board refused to make any changes in response to our children being raped and is doing absolutely nothing more than background checks.)


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David Arciniega / Garland Soccer Flout and Ignore State Law for Non-profits

Texas State Bar says:

A nonprofit must have at least two officers: a president and a secretary. A nonprofit may have other officers. The president and the secretary cannot be the same person (Sec. 22.231). The term of an officer cannot exceed three years (Sec. 22.232). In the absence of a provision authorizing a specified term, the officers must be appointed or elected annually (Sec. 22.232)….

Directors and officers are required to perform their duties as a director or committee member:
* In good faith;
* With ordinary care; and
* In the best interest of the nonprofit.
To meet this requirement, directors must follow certain legal responsibilities also known as the Duty of
Obedience, the Duty of Care, and the Duty of Loyalty….

They should ask questions, if necessary,
to obtain information sufficient to fulfill their responsibilities…

Accountability, Transparency, and Reporting
A. Books and Records
Nonprofits must keep correct and complete books and records. All nonprofits must maintain the following information at the registered or principal office of the nonprofit in Texas:
* names and addresses of members, if any, entitled to vote;
* the written consent of the registered agent (Sec. 5.201(b));
* minutes of meetings of members, board of directors, and any committees having the authority of the board of directors; and
* complete books and records of accounts (Sec. 3.151).
Nonprofits must keep true and accurate financial records. Records should contain full and correct entries, including income and expenditures, in accordance with generally accepted accounting principals. The records must be kept at the registered or principal office of the nonprofit in Texas for at least three years after the close of the fiscal year (Sec. 22.353)….

Nonprofits must allow any member or governing person to examine and copy books and records, including the names and addresses of members entitled to vote. A member can make a written demand to examine the nonprofit’s books and records. The purpose of the demand must be stated in writing. The member or a member’s agent, attorney, or accountant may examine the books at any reasonable time and for any proper purpose. The cost of copying is the responsibility of the member….

Whistleblower policies. A nonprofit should provide employees and volunteers with a confidential way to report suspected financial wrongdoing. See www.texascbar.org for a sample whistleblower policy….

A qualified nonprofit may hold only two raffles a year; the raffles cannot be at the same time. Raffle tickets
must contain certain language required by law including:
* the organization’s name,
* the organization’s address,
* the ticket price,
* a general description of the prizes, and
* the date the prizes will be distributed….

After a nonprofit receives its IRS tax exemption letter from the IRS, the board’s interest in the exemption application (Form 1023) often disappears. After a few years, many nonprofits have no idea where the application is located. Nonprofits must maintain a copy of the application in an accessible location because federal law requires nonprofits to make the application available for public inspection. For more information, see the Section
on public disclosure requirements….

Board governance
An active, attentive board may be the most important way to avoid major threats to an organization. Board members should have a wide range of skills and perform duties. Board members are legally responsible for the
management of the affairs of the organization. A board member should:
Understand roles and responsibilities of a board,
Understand the organization’s mission and services,
Receive regular reports on finances and program performance, and
Be actively involved in fundraising.

Financial assessment
Financial mismanagement is a common concern for nonprofit organizations. In order to reduce the likelihood of such an occurrence, the board should receive training on nonprofit accounting practices…..

B. Protections Against Liability for Directors
Acting in accordance with the duties of directors. Directors are protected from liability if they act in good
faith with ordinary care and in the best interest of the organization.
Dissenting from an action. A director who dissents to an action must have the dissent entered into the minutes of the meeting or send a written dissent to the organization. (Sec. 22.226)
Indemnification of directors. Directors, even those who work under the protection of a corporate form, can still be sued. Even if they cannot be held liable, they may be responsible for paying for attorney’s fees and court


Garland Soccer has no secretary.  Records are kept secret from board members and members of this charity.  Whistleblowers are vilified and harassed.  David Arciniega runs it like a dictator and the board is nothing more than his puppets.

Corruption in Youth Soccer

The following issues in Garland Soccer need to be investigated:

  1. Garland’s children were harmed by sexual predator Bernardo Mondragon-Guzman. Has Garland Soccer made changes as they promised they would do in the media?
  2. A director married to a registered for life, level 2 sex offender with a child victim was letting him handle rosters and other records. This director did not drive and this offender accompanied her everywhere. The president insisted on keeping her on the board knowing the sex offender would be around at every soccer activity possibly putting our children in danger.
  3. This same director and her husband were bragging that they would be meeting the association president, David Arciniega, to discuss construction work for GSA when no open bidding was in progress.
  4. $8,000.00 of “missing funds” has no proper documentation as the board is routinely denied documentation.
  5. Garland Soccer Association president, David Arciniega, lied to the GSA member coaches about those “missing funds” claiming there was ongoing litigation between the software provider, Jevin and the payment processor, Corduro. 2 years later no litigation is on record anywhere.
  6. A former Coach and director were brought up on phony charges when the player pool placed children of the correct age with their coaching parents. Why would children be placed on teams competing against their parents’ teams?
  7. The president, David Arciniega, runs this organization like a dictatorship and flouts the GSA, North Texas State and US Youth Soccer by-laws.
  8. State law concerning fiduciary duties is not being followed.
  9. Elections in Garland Soccer have been rigged for years.
  10. Arciniega filed a No Confidence Petition in an attempt to remove a director who spoke on behalf of a candidate running against him. Members are afraid to vote their conscience.
  11. The number of players and coaches are dropping as folks leave unhappy with their experience in Garland Soccer.
  12. Garland Soccer has lost almost all of its interleague play with neighboring associations. Richardson, Wylie and Chamber Classic have left Garland Soccer. Plano Soccer will not invite us to join them all. The U13 and up depend on interleague to have enough teams to play in their correct age groups.
  13. The coaches are shut down at meetings and their voices are not heard.
  14. The Garland Soccer Association is operated in a shroud of secrecy even though it is in fact a 501 c 3 charity and should be completely transparent.
  15. Members of the association and the public have not been welcomed to the board meetings.
  16. Board meeting agendas, board meeting minutes and board member reports are kept secret.

This organization has coaches in fear of retaliation if they speak out. It is a hostile and unwelcoming environment.